Dating Tips Online - The limits of fidelity

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Dear Doc:
I’ve been with my girlfriend for a couple of years and infidelity has never been a problem for us….or so I thought up until a couple of days ago. You see, she has this coworker, a male, who she spends her lunch hour and breaks with…and I guess, up until that point, it didn’t really bother me much. Surely enough, the text messages to her phone followed, even on weekends, and I started to feel uneasy but kept it to myself. Finally, a couple of nights ago, I come downstairs, wondering why she isn’t in bed, and find her online, chatting with this guy!! This is when red lights are flashing at me and I draw the line. She says it’s not infidelity but why does it feel that way to me?

Dear Reader:
The first question you need to ask yourself is, do you believe that a man and a woman can be just friends? Or do you necessarily think that eventually either one of them will feel something sexual? I ask this, because just as you describe it, it sounds like what could be a mere friendship. In other words, if this guy were one of your wife’s girlfriends, would you be concerned and so upset? It’s difficult for two people to spend free time (lunches and breaks) together and not become somewhat close. Closeness, friendship does not follow office hours but will inevitably spill into all moments in life.

With that said, it’s important that you both, as a couple, review the limits of your relationship and dwell a bit on what each person considers to be infidelity. It sounds to me like she goes by a more physical approach yet you feel that it can be emotional as well. If you feel that this “frienship” is interfering with aspects of your relationship, then there definitely is a red light there… speaking to your partner openly and frankly is the only way to go about it though. Good luck!

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